Category Archives: Relationships

If you have ever wondered “WTF Are Men Thinking?,” Then Don’t Miss this One Ladies.

October 9th, 2012 by aamc

The “Tell All” book to end all “Tell All” books about “WTF Are Men Thinking” is finally here. In this landmark book, 250,000 Men Reveal What Women REALLY Want to Know…(Hope they come out with the Female companion version soon. LOL.) It truly Let’s the proverbial ‘Cat Out of the Bag’ on a wide Range Continue Reading

Is He Mr./Mrs. Right, or Mr./Mrs. Right Now?

October 9th, 2012 by aamc

Researchers have found that if you are In-doubt, you are best to Leave Him Out? The Marriage you save could be your own. A recently released UCLA study conducted with 464 couples found those who harbored doubts about marrying their spouses had a much higher divorce rate after 4 years than those who didn’t. Specifically, 19% Continue Reading

How Far Would You Go to Insure Your Spouse Doesn’t Cheat?

October 8th, 2012 by aamc

“Basketball Wives’ Malaysia Pargo creates a Wedding ring that imprints “Married” on a man’s finger… While I agree fidelity is the holy grail of marriage (unless the couple agrees to an open marriage), I can’t help but think if you are taking such drastic measures to ensure basic honesty, it may be time to consider Continue Reading

Dr. Shane is a Guest Expert in Marriage Documentary

October 2nd, 2012 by aamc

Let’s Recapture Our history — Happily Married Since Beginning of Ancient Civilization!

September 29th, 2012 by aamc

Ranked in Top 100 Blogs for African Americans Best Black Dating Sites name AAMC one of the Top 100 Blogs for African Americans — rating us #1 in the Weddings, Marriage, & Family Life section, and #33 overall.) (Click to Read Rankings) Marriage is our History, Tradition and Culture…since the Beginning of Ancient  Civilization. (Marriage Continue Reading

Dr. Shane helps answer the question, “Are you ‘Ready’ to ‘Jump the Broom’?” Ebony, May 2011

September 29th, 2012 by aamc

In this Ebony issue, Dr. Shane helps you and your partner to assess your “Relationship Readiness,” on pages 66 and 69. Also includes an insightful “Relationship Readiness” test you might want to check out. Enjoy!

Dr. Shane talks with Ebony about “Dating Across the Collar Line,” August 2011

September 29th, 2012 by aamc

In this Money and Wealth edition of Ebony Magazine, Dr. Shane discusses what happend when Love meets Class. It’s a great article about “Dating Across the Collar Line.” That’s Collar, not Color, because article is not about dating across racial, but class lines — a.k.a, Socio-Economic Status. Article is on page 61.

“Secrets of Soul-mate Love?”

September 24th, 2012 by aamc

Are you looking to discover the “Secrets of Soul-mate Love?” If so, you are like many of the clients that come to see me — married, dating or single. One of the most effective tools I have found to assist them in connecting with “Mr. Right” vs “Right Now’” is Kathy Freston’s CD, “The One.” Continue Reading

Are You Needy or Neglected?

September 23rd, 2012 by aamc

Is There a Conflict Between Your Need for Space and Your Partner’s Need for Intimacy? From time to time I get couples coming in for therapy with one of them complaining about the other being too clingy and smothering … not giving them enough space, while the other simultaneously complains they weren’t being loved and Continue Reading

Black Voices Asks Dr. Shane: “Do Black Celebrity Weddings Help the Black Community?

August 15th, 2010 by aamc

In this interview with “Black Voices,” Dr. Shane Perrault, marriage counselor and African American relationships expert, told Black Voices that high-profile black marriages like Barack and Michelle Obama, and Will and Jada Smith are good for the community.  African Americans are less likely than any other group in the United States to get married.  To read the Continue Reading